Thursday, July 22, 2010

"crazy ladies"

so this is a topic that bugs the crap out of me...when men say all women are crazy! i will admit that i along with most women are a little crazy sometimes but its mostly due to the fact that men drive us to be that way! last night i was talking to a group of guys and i asked them what they were up to...the response "were hiding from crazy!" knowing the group of guys i knew who she was and the situation. the situation in a nutshell is guy and girl hook up for a couple months..girl asks whats the status of the relationship cause she likes the guy...guy freaks out cause hes not looking for the same thing! now i know this has happened to me before and im sure many other girls out there. why is it that guys get so freaked out over the "whats our status" question??? i personally think that the guy should know its coming if they have been together for a few months...and if hes not ready for a realtionship with the girl....stop hooking up with them! i know its hard to turn down when its right in front of you but get some self control dude!


at the begining of the realtionship that im currently in..i was called crazy. the main reason was because i was really into to the guy and wanted to make sure we were on the same page and commited to each other. personally i thought this was a discussion that needed to be had...his reaction was to shut down and back off....my response to this was not good. i do admit that i am an intense person sometimes and i probably scared the crap out of him. but beacuse i really cared about being with him i backed off and let him come around!


all im asking for is a little respect here...i think ever girl does! heres a note to all guys...if you dont want a girl getting attached to you...DONT SLEEP WITH HER...its not rocket science boys!

Tuesday, July 20, 2010

my first blog...

hello to all who are reading..fingers crossed that someone is actually reading this!


first of all coming up with a name for this blog was so hard. i think i tried about 10 names before i settled on this...the reason i chose Erin's glass slipper was mainly because i have always loved Cinderella! back in high school i was to say the least obsessed. i had a Cinderella watch that i wore everyday, i bought numerous figurines, had Cinderella t-shirts and to this day i still drink my morning coffee out of my Cinderella coffee mug! i would consider a tattoo but really hate when people have cartoon character tattoos...go figure! secondly i just plain love shoes! any of you who have been to my apartment and seen my closet know that i have a bit of a shoe problem...the first step is admitting it right??


anywho..the main reason i started this is because i think by writing is a great form of expression and a good way to work through issues....god knows i have a few!! :) so to whomever reads this i hope you follow and enjoy the ups and downs of my life!